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Childless not by Choice

Hello there, my name is Civilla Morgan. Are you childless not by choice? Do you know someone who is?

After years of hoping, and waiting, even attempting on two occasions to adopt; I realized I would never have children. It was a difficult time for me, but I decided that I could not be the only woman on this planet trying to figure out how to deal with my situation.

You see, I was not willing to pretend I was OK when I really was not. I wanted children and I was not going to be having any.  I heard all types of comments down through the years from acquaintances and strangers alike. Some meant well, some wanted me to be sure I recognized they had something I would never have.

But through it all, as much as my heart hurt, I also knew there were women worldwide who were going through the same or similar circumstances and feelings. And on top of that, some women are being physically and mentally mistreated.

So I created Childless not by Choice aka 21st Century Hannah. A platform where I speak to and encourage women who are childless not by choice. Check out my episodes, and please tell your friends and family; especially those who are childless not by choice. For details on all things childless not by choice, visit me at 

Thank you!

Sep 12, 2016

Hello everyone!

Thanks for visiting me here at 21st Century Hannah! Thank you to the repeat listeners, and thank you to the first time visitors! I so appreciate your taking the time to listen!

I hope you are telling your friends about the show! By doing so you are helping me spread the word that childless not by choice may be a reality for some of us, but we can still live a relevant and joyful life.  Thank you for sharing!

In this episode, I read ‘my story’. I have been asked to submit my story to a childless not by choice advocate in The United Kingdom, who is compiling a book of stories from childless not by choice women who made it through the valley of sadness and loss.

It’s not that we suddenly forgot or got over the fact that we wanted children. It’s about our decision, our choice, to journey to that place. That place in our mind, heart, and soul, where we decided we wanted a better rest of our lives. 

And as for me, I plan to help other childless not by choice women find their way to that place. That’s my life’s mission.

Listen to my story. Tell me what you think. And if you would like to share your story, let me know. My contact information is listed below.

Thanks for listening!

Until next time! 


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