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Childless not by Choice

Hello there, my name is Civilla Morgan. Are you childless not by choice? Do you know someone who is?

After years of hoping, and waiting, even attempting on two occasions to adopt; I realized I would never have children. It was a difficult time for me, but I decided that I could not be the only woman on this planet trying to figure out how to deal with my situation.

You see, I was not willing to pretend I was OK when I really was not. I wanted children and I was not going to be having any.  I heard all types of comments down through the years from acquaintances and strangers alike. Some meant well, some wanted me to be sure I recognized they had something I would never have.

But through it all, as much as my heart hurt, I also knew there were women worldwide who were going through the same or similar circumstances and feelings. And on top of that, some women are being physically and mentally mistreated.

So I created Childless not by Choice aka 21st Century Hannah. A platform where I speak to and encourage women who are childless not by choice. Check out my episodes, and please tell your friends and family; especially those who are childless not by choice. For details on all things childless not by choice, visit me at 

Thank you!

Apr 11, 2016

Hello everyone! Thanks so much for dropping by and listening in to this episode: Hang in there! I am excited to once again be able to encourage the childless not by woman and man!

In this episode, I also discuss facing down the monster of trauma.  Whether that trauma is finding that you are childless not by choice, or any other trauma one has been through.  I equate the monster to the storage room and basement in my childhood home! When you listen it will make sense.

I also speak to the fact that the Childless not by Choice Community does not want to be pitied.  Instead we would prefer empathy. We would also prefer that those who do have children, not assume that we have all the time in the world because we do not have children. 

By the way, the intro to my podcast where I thank my sponsors and supporters, is new with this episode. I am so excited because 21st Century Hannah continues to grow and to evolve!

Thanks again for listening to 21st Century Hannah, I am thankful and humbled that you took the time to listen.

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